UK-Wide Support
If you are facing pressures, false debt, DWP problems,
family court stress, council
issues, or overwhelming
emotional strain, support is
available across the whole UK.
Important: This website is not an emergency service and cannot provide crisis
intervention, emergency
support, or immediate assistance.
If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 999 now or go to your nearest Accident & Emergency (A&E) department.
If you need urgent mental health support, call NHS 111 and select the mental health option.
For free, confidential support 24 hours a day:
If you or someone is in
immediate danger
- 999 – Emergency services (ambulance, police, fire)
- A&E / Emergency Department – Go to your nearest hospital emergency department
- NHS 111 – Select the
- mental health option for urgent mental health
- support in England
24/7 Crisis Support
- Samaritans – 116 123 (free, confidential, 24 hours a day)
- Shout Crisis Text Line – Text SHOUT to 85258 (free, confidential, 24/7)
- NHS 111 Mental Health Support – Call 111 and choose the mental health option
Suicide Prevention
- PAPYRUS HOPELINE247 (for children, young people, and those concerned about them)
- Call: 0800 068 4141
- Text: 07860 039 967
Additional Support
- CALM (Campaign Against Living Miserably) – 0800 58 58 58
(for anyone struggling or in crisis)
- Childline (under 19s) – 0800 1111
- Mind Infoline – 0300 123 3393
- SANEline – 0300 304 7000
Other help services but not 24/7
Family, Parenting & Separation Support
- Families Need Fathers
Shared parenting, child arrangements and family court support
- Relate
Relationship, separation and family support
Child Maintenance & Child Benefit Help
- Child Maintenance Service (Official)
- Child Benefit (Official)
- Independent Case Examiner
For complaints after the CMS complaints process - HM Courts & Tribunals Service
Tribunal guidance and appeals information
Benefits, DWP & Public Debt Support
- Citizens Advice
- Turn2us
Benefits, grants and financial support - StepChange Debt Charity
- National Debtline
Employment, Wages & Deduction from Earnings Orders
- ACAS
Employment rights, workplace disputes and deductions from earnings - Gov.uk Employment Rights
Public Services Complaints & Accountability
- Parliamentary and Health Service Ombudsman
- Local Government & Social Care Ombudsman
- Information Commissioner’s Office (ICO)
From us at Right First Time UK
Do not fight alone.
Do not ignore letters.
Do not let false debt consume you.
What To Do During an Emotional or Mental Health Crisis
A Grounding & Safety Guide
When stress, panic, anxiety,
emotional overwhelm, or crisis
feelings become intense, it can feel
difficult to think clearly. During these moments, slowing things down and focusing on simple steps can help calm the body and mind.
You do not need to solve everything immediately. Focus first on safety, breathing, and getting through the next few moments.
Step 1 — Move to a Safe & Calm Space
If possible:
- Sit somewhere quiet
- Step outside for fresh air
- Move away from arguments or stressful situations
- Lower noise and distractions
- Drink some water
You do not have to deal with everything at once.
Step 2 — Pause & Breathe Slowly
Try slowing your breathing down gently.
Breathing Technique
Breathe in slowly:
1… 2…
Breathe out slowly:
1… 2…
Repeat slowly several times.
Do not rush.
Focus only on your breathing for the moment.
Slow breathing can help reduce panic, stress, racing thoughts, and physical tension.
Step 3 — Ground Yourself
Look around and focus on your surroundings.
Try naming:
- 5 things you can see
- 4 things you can touch
- 3 things you can hear
- 2 things you can smell
- 1 thing you can focus on
This can help bring your mind back to the present moment.
Step 4 — Contact Someone You Trust
You do not need to struggle alone.
Consider contacting:
- A trusted family member
- A friend
- Your GP
- A support worker
- A mental health support line
Simply telling someone:
“I’m struggling right now”
can be an important first step.
Step 5 — Avoid Making Major Decisions in Crisis
During periods of extreme stress or emotional overwhelm:
- avoid impulsive decisions
- avoid aggressive conflict
- avoid harmful coping behaviours
- avoid isolating yourself completely
Focus first on calming, safety, and support.
Step 6 — Reach Out for Professional Support
If things continue to feel overwhelming, seek support early.
Support Services
- NHS 111
- Samaritans
- Mind UK
- GP services
- Local mental health teams
If you or someone else is in
immediate danger:
Call 999 immediately.
Important Reminder
Strong emotions can pass, even when they feel overwhelming in the moment.
Stress, anxiety, panic, trauma, grief, financial pressure, family conflict, isolation, or emotional exhaustion can affect anyone.
Taking one small step at a time matters.
Breath by breath.
Moment by moment.
Support is available.
